Im a hottie in online dating
The other day, at a Fashion Week party, my friend Alan and I stood against a wall, scanning the room for hot people, as you do.“It’s weird,” he said contemplatively, staring into a sea of models.With every new semester and every new job gave new opportunity to meet new people, but with that, it seemed to be the "same old, same old" with everyone being established in a relationship.With 10 years and countless dates, I've made a few friends, gone on lots of dates, and have even managed to get 3 somewhat serious relationships out of it.I've trekked through Nepal, gone on safari in Africa, and (in case things got too wild) learned kung fu from a Shaolin monk.I cook a mean coq au vin on a camp stove, and I don't wear mascara when I surf.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.
If you’ve ever had someone look at you during sex with this completely euphoric expression, like, “I ,” you understand that “dating down” in terms of attractiveness can be a confidence boost in its own right.
Or, more simply, have we just realized that dating freakishly beautiful people isn’t all it's cracked up to be?
A female friend once told me, “It’s always best to date attractive men, but not attractive that everyone’s constantly trying to jump on their dick, because that’s just stressful.” The sentiment actually made a lot of sense to me.
I’ve already expressed my argument for why in two posts: one on how critical it is to find the right life partner and how seriously we should take that quest, and another on why going to bars is a terrible life experience.
The first step in ending up with the right person is meeting the right person, and for something so important in our lives, we’ve had for doing it efficiently and intelligently.